Ways of Saying words of Compliments

We live in a belts of lines, the anger, the political turmoil around us every day. We live in a world Struggling to survive. But happiness does not depend on the things around us and order. It depends on yourself. For example, we know to donate a piece of heart with whom to communicate, their lives a little Happier. Unfortunately, not everyone can say a good word to others, or pay Compliments easily, this capability seems to disappear from our lives.
People who know how to do good deeds, without any reason, such as the exotic, like an old Dinosaur. (This can be Extinct because they do not provide warmth for each other?) At first glance, the praise is a very simple way of communication. But to make this town is the greatest art. If a woman insinsereli say "how beautiful you are today!" - This can only cause the opposite effect. Every woman knows evil: "What?" Today only! And how easy it is to pay a compliment to those who can not be used to get credit for the beauty?
Praise can be divided into three groups: 1. Indirect compliment. We commend not the person, but something very precious to him: it is a weapon for hunting, pets are "obsessed with" the dog, its parents, etc. 2. Compliment 'minus - plus. What are the Characteristics of other people a little "minus" in the first, and then you have a big plus. For example: "I do not think I can say that a good job ... You are special to us is required, after "negative" assessment of people feel lost and worried, and then you say something against their very Flattered at first, so. Like balancing on the cliff near the horror, the thought of death, then came the Indescribable joy, Psychologists believe that I am alive! " Praise him as the most emotional and Memorable, but risky. If the "minus" is stronger than the "plus" The consequences could be disastrous for us. 3. Other than the best sense of the word person. "I want my children to be responsible, just like you!" This is the praise of his best and most Enjoyable. Not seen, but it made a close and Trusting relationship partners.
Praise helps us when we need to criticize someone. The goal is to change the behavior of criticism from others, not only damage the environment, insults, destroyed. If you think that the people (who I like to do), you can do with it what you want, but I do not want to do it alone. The most difficult thing is to not Respond with praise. This should be done immediately, if they do not want Anymore. Art is not of praise for his ability to Subtle changes. In other words, it must return to the Psychological as well as those who give to you. It is important to praise the company for the positive quality, not because they are very good. But they praise us when we see something good for us.
And finally, the most important facts: praise be valuable only if done with honesty. Left-handed compliment - but Subtle ridicule. Good luck! ... Set!