In a Relitionship, What is Love all about

A Chinese woman and her friend at the University of Wuhan recently proposed. She stood on the top of his car with large signs and flowers in the middle of the parking lot, waiting for him as a large crowd gathered. He turned, but a good reason. He wanted money, so they could afford to house together now to save.
I wonder, is this love? What is love, this crazy human bond and relationship to you? We go through a ritual called dating, that's sometimes hilarious, painful and expensive and so many of us never seem to learn from him.
It is not the stuff you together, not the crazy buying things over the top and a lavish wedding ceremony. I dare say it together more than children and adults.
(We call it V) A friend of mine says, "Love (is) the irrational idea that someone actually make the delusion that I miss with him the false hope that no matter how you try to kill (.. es) (IT) remains stubbornly somewhere in your heart of good things to come. "
(Let S) My other friend said: "Love ... is not present, not sweet words, no grand gestures, it is this sweet agony of waiting for your loved ones, the anticipation of seeing him, the zeal that would have one. plastering the nose on the glass (to see him at the airport). "
As for me, well, what can I say? Numerous poets, writers and philosophers for thousands of years, enough to make all books and encyclopedias written about this strange, terrible and wonderful at the time and fill vital emotion. What new, fresh perspective and insight on this that I have?
OK, so here goes: Love is a force of nature that brings two people together. They complement each other. Yes, it's the first flush of love magic, called grace period. But that does not last forever.
No, it is not constant. It grows and develops as a wine. Matures and settles in a bit smoother. There will be ups and high notes, of course, but it will mellow with time.
Love makes you reach over your comfort zone to be there for your significant other in his / her time of need you find that your strength and power beyond your wildest proposals. They are as strong as the strongest, most stable rock when he or she is at her weakest.
And while you will love witty, sensitive new and old things. They are open and things to see how all your senses will be improved. They were always there, but you will see as a newborn child when she felt the first time. They are like a short-sighted person in a new pair of glasses and seeing sunsets, sunrises, flowers, photographs and works of art and how they clear for the first time. You'll notice how rich and vibrant flavors and colors. Everything you ignored before a new life and access to the shoulders and demand your attention.
Love is two people, share and eventually building a life together. There will be moments of laughter, tears, fights and silence. is the ultimate paradox of love, so do not think the rest of your life spent with someone else and you have the courage to join, giving them freedom and independence.