How to to have confidence in dating

Life, the number of us know it is simply unfair. Our own life is standing as a big advertisement and you have your own personal sales and marketing campaign manager. Sounds pretty daunting? But if you get it right the rewards are incredible and if you can not successfully market yourself effectively you will be ignored. Therefore, you have a choice to make.
While this may seem like a harsh and superficial view, should not people to see us for who we are and see straight into the depths of our hidden talents? Yes, in a perfect world they certainly should - but we know the world is nowhere near perfect. Any competitive environment requires a marketing strategy to become one of the leading players in the market and the same principle applies to the competitive environment singles. If you do not sell yourself, how people are going to know you even exist?
start promoting yourself, or 'self promotion' with a main item being put on the shelf for sale - you. And if you do not appeal to any consumer you sit on the shelf and collect dust. Attraction certainly come down to much more than what's on the surface, but it is the surface that we see first and it must have a certain amount of appeal.
Make no mistake, if it is right or wrong, superficial or artificial, the fact remains that appearances count when it concerns self-promotion. And to coin a phrase - people really do judge a book by its cover. Meeting and dating online is a prime example. Have you ever venture into one of the online dating sites? What was the first thing you look at? The photo's, right? True! A recent Australian study to back it up claiming that when singles browse free dating websites 91% look at the profile pictures before moving onto the profile description.
To make yourself a salable product, harsh self-assessments and choices that need to be identified. Also, ask yourself these questions and give yourself an honest answer: Are you a 'worker' or a 'Guna' The old sense that you are a self motivated person who always sets to fulfill your purposes. The last sense you really full of it and full of nothing but talk and no action. If you are a 'Guna' but can not even admit it to yourself to stop reading right now until you are ready to be a 'worker'.
Knowing where you stand in the market is something you need to establish. If you are overweight 50-year-old guy you're not going to appeal to a 25-year-old girl. As a guideline, men and women will date within a 10-year age range, anything beyond this and you are pretty rare territory.
Now that you have an understanding of the basic things that can be improved, it's time you acted on it in a positive and proactive way, it's time to do something about it. Poor confidence will get you nowhere, a good self image will let you go almost any place you please - the choice is yours. Set a goal of twelve months training gym, start going shopping for new clothes, get a hair cut and style of your self image get organized!
In just a few short weeks, you will begin to feel energized and alive! Now it's time to take your new product from the market place - it's called self-promotion. No one is going to come knocking on your door, you need to actually leave the house. Many people are scared of making the first move when at parties or functions. Seriously, do not think about it as a 'pick up' scenario. Take measures to just talk to people in a non-threatening way, just be friendly and interesting and dating and romance side of things will be a mere formality.